I dont have sleep apnea, but as a nurse I treat many patients who do. I dont know of any particular medication on the market for this disorder but the CPAP and BIPAP machines on the market now are very quiet and my patients seem to be comfortable with them. I think its just a matter of getting used to having something over your nose. Have you googled sleep apnea. I do believe you will find some support groups out there and be able to communicate with people who have the same disorder.