I know he doesnt seem to care,but he seems to put the blame on me some how, and yes he does want an open marriage, i dont. we been married for 20yrs and it has changed in the last 4-5years with the porn and open marriage thing.
I told him i think something is going on when i seen the email account, all he could do is say noppe there isnt and if you think so he said "get out then if you think so' and hasnt said anything about it since and woke up this morning as if nothing happened.