My fiance told me about this girl he found on Facebook after not seeing her for almost 25 years when his family moved away. He was 10 yrs old at the time and says that he missed her dearly. When eventually life moved on for both of them until recently when he tracked her down on Facebook. She hasn't had the best life in the town they are from so he obviously felt bad for her.

Well he left his Facebook page open and I went to sit down at the computer and saw the subject line of an email they had sent to one another. Reconnecting with an old friend had certainly morphed into a full blown "what could have been for the two of them" and "feelings from when he was a kid came flooding back". I left the page open for him and decided to leave the house to get some air. He realizes that he got busted, and is adamant that they put a stop to the "relationship" that afternoon before I found the messages. He of course deleted all forms of communication they had with one another through email/text msgs. He has admitted to the mistake and says he doesn't know how/why things got out of hand.

We are supposed to marry in less than three months and I now wonder if they hadn't of been caught could it have turned into something physical. Sharing feelings and discussing the possibility of them sharing a life together while being engaged to another woman is disturbing to me. How can feelings from when you were 10 yrs old be rehashed to a grown adult??? I showed me a text to her asking if she can verify the msg he sent to her that afternoon telling her he was "done" and wanted to go ahead with his marriage.

What are your thoughts? Can he be trusted? Or should I walk away?