Safe Hugs for this situation. It is hard on the person dealing With DID/ or black out schizo. and the people in thier lives. But the main thing is to get the person to start journaling about what is going on with him. and to state your bonderies so that this person will know what you can or can not deal with.
I my self have been in the oppisite postion the people that I wanted to be safe with. Where told that parts of us was scared of them so they removed themselves from us, which in turn made us loose trust in them. But ifyou are will to talk to this person face to face and be willing to help this person to start journaling out the issues that he is dealing with then you can be of great help to him. Please allow the fact that if he has Alter that each will feel differently but as you get to know each one you will be able to tell how to adreess each one. In the sticky notes at the top of this section is a post that we put there are books for friends and family of people to help them understand that which we go through good luck.
http://www.sidran.org/store/index.cf...&category_id=1
The above link is to a place that I first started to get materials that helped us to heal.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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