I totally agree with everyone's posts, I will add that in order to have your future mate/husband be able to please you to orgasmic heights, it first starts with knowing yourself and how you can please yourself to be able to orgasm. I have several girlfriends that said they could never orgasm during intercourse, and I asked them if they'd ever experienced it by masturbation, when they said No. I was surprised and asked them to see if they were able to do it for themselves and then they could tell their partner, things like how, what, when, it feels good etc.. IMO, I think it's a must for a healthy fullfilling sexlife.