I've been through three different experiences of rape by three different people. Now, I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy and we've been together for 3 years. The only problem is, whenever I have a flashback, or whenever my sex drive goes away, he thinks it's because I don't love him anymore or that I don't find him attractive. I don't know how to make myself get my sex drive back because I do love him but I'm still really scared of sex. I'm in counseling, I'm just looking for some advice from people who might have the same problem as me. Thanks.