That really sucks. I agree with those that say it's good this happened now. This was unprofessional and uncaring of her.

I know you probably feel you wasted your time with her. It's true you will probably progress better with a different T than this one who was not working out for you and probably had personal issues. But this time spent reflecting with her will prepare you for your next T. Having talked all of this through in T, even with a not-so-good T, has helped you to organize your thoughts and pay attention to your own behaviors and feelings. Just remember this.. don't feel too bad for wasting your time. But next time, know to follow your gut.