A lot of times people will look superficially happy, that is the way people are suppose to act. That is probably one of the reasons why when people say "How are you today?" you are just suppose to say "fine, how are you?"

I'm the type when someone says "How are you today?" I say "I feel like crap because....". Basically what I have found is if you can't act happy all the time, like I can't, then people won't want to be around you. In fact, I avoid unhappy people too.

So remember, those other women may seem happy, but might really not be.

Heh, I can have a good conversation with one other person, I learned when to talk, but when other people are talking and I want to join in, I can't figure out where to insert myself exactly and I end up interrupting or I give up and sit in the corner and shake my leg out of nervousness.