I agree with the others-- she sounds uncaring and unprofessional, and you're well rid of her.

Also, I had a similar situation once, where I was caught in traffic and was going to be very late. And my T handled it completely differently. I called her on my cell to let her know and I was all upset and she told me not to worry about it. She suggested that if I wanted, I could just pull over somewhere, and we could talk over the phone, and do the appointment that way.

So, y'know -- your T could have done something like that, too.

I hope that your next T is much better than that last one.

-Far