ahhh kate81.. that sucks.. I had a T who was all about the business too.. I never connected with her, felt totally judged by her, and think she wasn't even really "there" for the majority of my sessions. She was 45 minutes late to one of my sessions and made me late to class, never apologized. What a bunch of crap. A good T is not in it for the money.. I mean they have bills to pay and so they have to set firm guidelines but that's not the point. I want to be a T myself and there is no way I would behave this way. Most T's are not like this. You can easily find someone who became a T because he/she genuinely loves people.