My 21 year old daughter has a non-existant learning curve. I need help figuring out how to help her. Since I can't make her decisions, I am getting very frustrated watching lifes lessons having no affect. She carries traffic violations around in her purse till her fines triple. She has a bench warrant out for her arrest, she simply stopped drug testing and seeing her probation officer, which now causes her to risk her hyta. Is there anyone out there who knows how to help the mentally-ill tread water.