Back again Lillyleaf.....

Do you feel a sense of connection with your T? Many T's do not have experience in this area like Luce said. You do not need to defend her lack of training.

Please just try get a second or third opinion until you feel at peace with your T. Trust me, you will know when you click with a person. It really is worth the search...... and so beats wasting years with a person who doesn't get you.

Take Care