That is so true possum. It took us 13 years to find our counselor and he is wonderful! Not trying to discourage you Lilly, just trying to encourage you not to limit your options (therapist-wise) and to not give up. The right T is out there for you, you just have to find her/him. Keep looking and hang in there. Krista wants me to tell you that she loves Meek too much for you to be stuck with a crappy T. I don't know if that made sense, but oh well. Take care of yourselves.

Cris et al