(((((((((Mr. Burn))))))))))
OMG. I am so sorry. This woman sounds horrible.
That is so terrible that she told you you would never find a career that you liked and that would earn you some money. Don't listen to her!!!! Don't listen to anything she says!!!! And please try to find someone else - she doesn't sound like she will help you at all. I am so sorry she said all those hurtful things, and that she just doesn't really seem to care.
I just had an experience with a therapist who it turned out didn't care, and I ignored the early warning signs of that (and they weren't nearly as blatant as this) and wasted a whole lot of time and money. It's a shame there are so many people out there like this, but we really have to keep trying to find a good therapist, even though it can be so hard - I don't know about you, but I find it so discouraging every time I find yet another person who doesn't know what they're doing or just doesn't care.
But you need to keep looking. If this is your gut feeling about this woman this early on in the relationship, go look for someone else. I know it's really hard, but don't give up! Is there anywhere you can go for recommendations on someone who is good? Maybe go to some meetings of a local support group for whatever problem you're struggling with, and ask some other people there for recommendations?
I really hope you can find someone better than this. Good luck, and keep trying!
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