I liked your grieving post and the Seeker post.

I think getting to the point of acceptance is a life long process sometimes and in the way we reach acceptances.

In that, realising that we cannot control everything and that we are not victims. We have the power to deal with things and be good to ourselves.

I think that if you keep finding yourself in self pity - maybe think what is it that you are self pitying and the voices that are in your head while you do self pity.

What needs to happen so you stop self pity and start self love?