I think i would have taken that as a question on how I saw my life or what she was hearing from me and not as a statement that my life was in fact meaningless.

I love my T, but she has said some things to me that were quite upsetting at the time.

She once said "I'm not going to listen to this!" OMG, yes I was crying and upset, but she's my T and I thought that is what she is there for..to listen!

I could probably think of more but generally I see my T as a fellow human who sometimes says things that are not helpful and sometimes even hurtful. I also think that interpretations can vary and we sometimes hear things differently than they were intended.

But Deli, your T's statements are pretty outrageous! Gosh, I would have been running for the hills!