ummmm seems like a former T. said to me--"when change starts you will know, as the people you gravitate towards won't be the same type of people you used to gravitate towards".... (it is happening-- slowllllllyyyy)

I've always veered towards those that keep me "invisible", they seek all the attention and don't ask anything about me-- I fix them, have the answers and act as if my life is just fine(akin to my childhood-- keep quiet as no one wants to hear from you- you are fine no matter what is going on, others are the ones that need,want and deserve validation/attention and help)

The T. I see now has said, "there are positive changes, I can tell"..... but yea, she hasn't really said what she's noticed.......

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