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I am so sorry for the pain you and your family are enduring. As a divorced person of some years, I can tell you that you are right. It gets better and it gets worse, but slowly, over time, the good days outnumber the bad ones.
You may never fully understand your wife's decisions and in my case, the pain has never fully gone away. Hold tight to your children, grandchildren and friends. Don't isolate yourself. You do need time alone, but don't shut out the world. When we are wounded so deeply, it's a knee-jerk reaction to withdraw into yourself.
I wish you and your family the very best.
Jan
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