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How long have you've been dating him and have you guys been close enough to have a conversation why he's getting a divorce and what does he think about his expectation of relationships in the future? I'm asking this because more than likely he's still carrying emotional baggage from his last relationship. He's already dealing with a lot of his own problems and emotionally he probably doesn't have the mental space to deal with other things. I met my bf when he was legally separated and now the process of getting the divorce is going underway. I need to understand that he's going to be overwhelmed and even though he's not able to be there mentally I know it’s not because he doesn’t care but he has a lot going on at the time. Talk to him and don't allow your assumption ruin something that may be a good thing in your life.
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