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Old Apr 05, 2010, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Envision View Post
To quote you " I just got out of a bad unhappy relationship like a month ago". The #1 question is why are you on a dating site so soon? Are you really offering the best of you right now? I would bet not. Would you advise a friend to do the same thing you are doing? If they stopped contacting you after you met, they simply were not interested in you for whatever reason. Whether you connect with someone online or via phone, nothing can replace meeting in person. My input is that its just too early to do this after what you described and via a dating site its just a recipe for disaster rebound relationship. Best of luck.

I totally agree. From a guys perspective, maybe you are coming off as desperate? I dont want to offend you, so if I am wrong I apologize. Guys can sense when a woman is desperate and looking for a boyfriend/husband. It will scare us off everytime.

Why not take time out to get to know who you are? You are fresh out of a relationship, why jump into another one. Its okay to be alone and I doubt there is anything wrong with you. Just relax and one day when you least expect it the right man will come along.

Good luck.
Thanks for this!
Envision