Sorry if I annoyed you, Mr. burn - not my intention - just I thought it was relevant that as I'd had someone say something similar to me, and responded differently to it - actually, I never got the chance to discuss it with them either as they weren't the person I normally saw - it just struck a chord with me, and seemed similar to what had been said to you.

I would hope that somewhere like here is exactly the right place to vent - I find sometimes that just the act of writing something down can help me make more sense of what I'm feeling - but I suppose that all of us here can only try to respond to others from our own experiences, and hope that others can find some support through that.

Take care and I hope you will find this forum to be a source of support for you.