AAAAA - that's so IT! My hubby doesn't want to handle the money either, but feels inadequate when he doesn't. Plus, he says he feels hen-pecked if I attempt to limit his spending, so even when I'm in charge of paying the bills, there isn't enough to pay them...and he keeps spending...$5 for lunch, $3 for a beer after work, etc. They are all simple little things and not expensive, but they add up.

Oh well, hubby and I made up. He apologized for getting out and walking away. I apologized for making him so angry and frustrated. The rent got paid (by me) at lunch and I didn't pay the late fee. We'll see if that flies...