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Old Apr 06, 2010, 09:35 PM
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Interesting. Im no professional at translating dreams - but the way I see it is its almost as if theyre trying to tell you that they'll always be connected to you. You don't need to keep reaching out to find nic-nacs and reminders. You can simply reach out to them at any time in your heart and mind and they'll be there for ya.

It sounds corny, but. I think really, we just grieve for ourselves when our loved ones pass because Im sure theyre off to a much, much, MUCH nicer and fulfilling place. And deep down we just don't want to let them go - which is incredibly normal. But this dream doesn't seem to signify the end as in you can't find them anymore. It seems to be that its the end of your having to search incredibly hard and more of a sign that their essence will be with you no matter what. Especially since you seem to have a lovely relationship.

I can certainly understand why you would wake up distressed from this recent dream though. But I dont think it is a bad thing! Try flourishing your bond and reach out for their presence anytime. And since you're so familiar with the dream - maybe next time you do have it, try to take control a bit. (This does take a bit of practice) Perhaps instead of seeking out things, bask in the environment and enjoy the attic.

Anyway. I wish you the best of luck through this hard and heart-wrenching time, but you are /not/ alone. Be sure to take comfort in the fact that even though their physical beings are gone, the love certainly isn't.