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findingmyself1005 · Apr 07, 2010, 02:38 AM

I found this page a month ago, and i have enjoyed reading what everyone has to say and i have even spoken to a few of you. But i was wondering if anybody has figured out how to have a healthy relationship while sufferring from bipolar and bdp. I just found out that i suffer from bdp, but i was dianoised with bipolar almost 4 yrs ago. I am almost 35 and yet to have a healthy happy relationship. I had spent meany yrs being with men that needed to be fixed because it took the focus off me, and all the while i knew that they werent the ones for me. I was married for four yrs to a man that needed to be fixed and i wasnt even happy. It was after i left him that i had realized what i was doing and getting no where. So i told myself no more men that were broken, and even though i was abel to find that , but one thing i hadnt fixed myself. So again there i was with someone that it didnt work out. The one man that i feel in love with had to break it off with me because i had slipped into a depression and he couldnt deal with it . i dont balm ehim i wasnt doing anything to help myself. So i was wondering what does it take to have a healthy relationship when you feel like they are going to hurt you or leave you