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Originally Posted by tractionbeam0610
WeepingWillow,
I am not sure if I can do the same thing, because I don't feel like I need an apology from him. This happened one other time and once I was able to provide his exact words in the exact context of the situation, some of it came back to him...so I am still hoping for that. But, I guess if he still doesn't remember...than he just doesn't remember.  I have a real problem when someone questions my reality, and there is still the trust issue I have with him. So, I don't know how this is going to go. I guess I will know more after I see him on Thursday.  |
I appreciate how difficult it is when someone questions your reality. If you don't want T to apologise for the crossed wires, along the lines of 'If you say X happened and you felt Y about it, then I'm sorry you felt that way etc', what do you want T to do/say? You don't have to answer, but I often find that I'm never satisfied with another's response, until I know EXACTLY what it is that I want from them. Maybe I'm just missing what you have said (my brain is kinda fuzzy today) but I'm not clear on what you would like T to do.
I hope your appt goes well on Thurs
I think you will really be able to move forward with T if you can both resolve this.
*Willow*