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anderson · Apr 07, 2010, 06:03 PM

I remember the good T from long ago. It was good then to know that I was remembering and that One was their for us. From those here we have learned that there are still good ones out there just not here. When you go to a T or P-doc and they tell you that they can not help you unless you take the meds to make the voices go away it kind of defeats the purpose of healing and helping each other inside to heal from the pain that binds us. That is why this place is such an oasis for those of us with out a qualified person to help us.. When we are working with trama we use the comfort foods and a lot of heat. Its weird but we found that by increasing the body temperature it not only gives comfort but it allows alters to feel safe to heal. WE try to allow the allters to find safe time out and now that we are able to talk face to face more often to the people that we are trying to relearn to trust again it is not so bad. The body is in less pain today we just hope that it continues.
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this is good to have a place in which to air our pain with out the Bs of you know ........ But here we can heal and not have ti hide ourselvs or be treated with condesiden aragance. That why our faviorte saying is when you think you know everything you are a fool because you can never see the full story.
WE thought that when we moved here it would be the land of enlighted. after all this is the middle of the new age movement.
what we found is a mential health system that was put back into the dark ages and had no time to deal with the invisable world of reallity.
The odd part is that the people that made a name for themselfs from my apparent lack of memior or skills. Where right in a manner of speaking but I would challenge anyone to be able to perform their best under consent abuse from others. But coming here finely being able to let go of our son and not force our selves to work until we found a way to bring peace inside. Weather or not Shadow is the last one we can not say but even I aggre with her on this no money , nothing is worth endureing if you can not have the people you trust besides you and if they do not have the ability or desire to be by our side in public or private. then they sould eventual understand as we intergrate more we should be able to move on. but either way this time it was them that let Shadow feel safe to share and give us the means to be safe while we heal. Just hope it continues.
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But most of all we are thankful for those here that have the courage and the stregnth to help each other and to understand the pain we bear.