Lets see.. I can think of a few odd not sure if these are negative.. But here goes a few... He told me when I had a panic attack when driving on the beltway, that I should pull over and run around my car.. I think he thought my panic attacks were a joke or something.. wish he has panic attacks and I'd love to watch him run around his car.....panic attacks were never dealt with... everything i learned about panic attacks i learned "Online"...............

Out of the blue, he blurted out "we can never have sex with each other"....I said what! You have got to be kidding... I never ever once ever wanted to have sex with him.........Right there and then trust issues started...And he was stupid... One of my issues was that I could not date because I do not like being touched... And he knew this.. atleast i thought he knew this, as we talked about it.......He knew i had issues with sex too...that sex wasn't good for me, like it is supost to be.......... and he blurts out that we can't have sex together.... what a jerk!!!!!!!!!!

Ha! everything i was planing to type just flew out the window... if i think of them i might be back..

oh i just remembered this... isn't a negative, but i think it is very rude and unprofessional ... most of the time i paid in cash...he'd count it which is fine.. then he'd shove the money in his pockets.. not his desk drawer... went right to his pockets......... i'd bet $1,000 he did not have a file on me... that he pocketed the cash... because once I asked to see my file and all he had in it was a form i filled out with my name address, etc... nothing else whatsoever did he have on file about me..................and i saw him for 6 or 7 years...............

I thought it was me......until the last year i was in group...this poor guy for the whole year was trying to deal with his drinking.. and the t would look this guy in the eye and say ahhh you are not an alcoholic......the poor guy suffered thru the whole year, not facing his drinking problem, pretty much shoving it under the rug... then the guy got really bad and was sinking so he went to another doctor that put him on meds to help him stop drinking... in other words the T was making this guy be in denial and not facing that he really had a drinking problem, which in turn, made this poor guy suffer more.......thinks the t enjoyed seeing folks suffer than trying to help anyone get well.................

i better stop and wait till another time when i am in a nice mood...to continue on this topic....... wipes brow... am on a roll and is better i go to bed than remember those awful years i spent in therapy