I don't know what to say, just feeling sorry for you.

I am myself regarded as a person not to meddle with at work, and my policy is "Take or Leave"... I am not the boss there either, plenty of people senior to me, but this works for me.

I hope and pray that things work out for you!

And some words for you, in context to the "Password" thread:

ACT
Action
Changes
Things

PRIDE
Personal
Responsibility
In
Delivering
Excellence

SMILE
Special
Magic
In
Living
Everyday

Have a great day!