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I cannot tell you how to live your life, because you have to make those decisions. But I will give you some things to think about:
Does he literally work 7 days a week, no days off? If so, WHY?
How many hours a day does he work? Does he have a "lunch hour" that maybe you guys could meet during a few times a week, just to spend time together?
Do you trust him?? (This one is big, because from reading what you say, it doesn't seem like you trust him.)
If he won't go to therapy, will you go by yourself?
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"School is shortened, discipline relaxed, philosophies, histories, languages dropped, English and spelling gradually gradually neglected, finally almost completely ignored. Life is immediate, the job counts, pleasure lies all about after work. Why learn anything save pressing buttons, pulling switches, fitting nuts and bolts?" Bradbury, Ray Fahrenheit 451 p 55-56
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