This is frustrating. It's even frustrating to read because I can't figure out what you're looking for from your T in order to proceed. It's like I can see the roadblock right there. I can understand how it woud be very aggravating to be remembering something that was said and have the other person not recollect that...been there.

I'm not sure what you hope to get from bringing in your journal entry or pressing the issue that you are right in your memory and T is wrong. He clearly has no memory of this. Are you continuing with it because you hope that he will remember? Or that he will say you are right even if he doesn't remember? Is it just about you being right? You (or someone) mentioned questioning your reality, but it sure reads like questioning your rightness.

Maybe you are right and it's an impass, but maybe it's a really good opportunity to work on something big. Especially if people questioning your reality is a problem for you. Sounds like something that could use work...learning to deal with in whatever way so you don't have to walk out in the middle on whoever may question your reality in the future.

Sorry this is so frustrating for you. Hope you are able to get what you need from T.