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Originally Posted by Hippie
((((feary)))) It sounds like the custody of your children has you just going inside-out. I'm not a lwayer but wonder what appeal options you may have. Can you ask your lawyer for help?
Are you getting sleep? When I worry I don't sleep well and it makes me feel worse so am wondering if this could be happening to you.
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thank you.
there is not much I can do legally I found out unless my ex does something extremely crazy I am stuck in this arrangement.
I just am traumatized over and over every time my kids leave me. I feel so insecure and a strong sense of discomfort. It feels so unnatural like they are someone else's kids just visiting with me every couple days. That closeness and connection is lost I feel. My son was only 4 and my daughter was only 5 months old (and still nursing) when this all started and that makes it even worse.
I stay busy and all while they are away but it doesn't help
I sleep well because it is my only escape so I welcome it. It is tough to fall asleep though.