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Originally Posted by ChipmunkGal
 I'm a little embarrassed about writing this post but I have to ask and get feedback! I'm in my early 30's so you would think I would know the answer to this by now but are breasts really THAT important?
I've recently lost over 70 lbs in the past year and trying to get readjusted to my new body (I lost weight intentionally). I'm feeling absolutely self conscious and I don't even want to have sex with my fiance because I'm ashamed of my breasts. They went from AMAZING and FULL to almost non-existent.  I feel like along with the weight loss went my breasts and my womanhood. I don't even feel like a woman anymore. Does having small breasts make a woman less womanly? Less attractive? I'm afraid my fiance will eventually stray to find a woman who is more curvy and more like a woman that I am.
Does anyone have any words of wisdom, honest thoughts or advice? |
Hello, I'm sorry you have woe over this. I view it in several different ways.
For one I have always had since very young. That did not make for a good thing. (being looked at sexually when I was only a child).
I cried cuz they weren't little.
I got teased for having them too. I didn't want them.
Later - people 'stared' at them, which made me feel dirty.
Yet, I didn't do anything wrong.
As for dating - seems they attract ..., But, honestly -
NEVER has attention been made to them in that way.
I always thought "Why do I have these then".
It's so strange. Have them, don't....
Like straight or curely hair... we always want different ???
Now everybody is wearing FAKE -
My opionion is "That's crazy. Why look like everyone else"
Personally, I can't even wear fake finger nails as it seems foreign to my body.
Now at age 49.
The breasts have changed. It's going to happen with age, weight, exercise....
I sluched my entire teens - 20's to hide them.
Okay - I want to say this....
If you are loved by another - NO MATTER, NO MATTER ----
It's Your heart, soul, ... that make you
FROM the INSIDE OUT - other than that it's just a empty shell that we can decorate - But why
Why - ONLY if it pleases 'us', no one else.
Because, people will Always find something WRONG.
As for someone leaving due to physical -
That is TOTALLY on THEM. That is their issue, not yours.
Though I know just to think it might happen is makes the heart tear.
People - From the Inside Out......... The Out always fades.....