(((((((Gracey))))))))

You didn't do anything wrong. I'm sorry that you were hurt. Everyone, let's please drop the topic of how and why questions are asked, okay? I can understand that someone might be uncomfortable being asked for information given the experience of finding out that a group member was faking (in which case there is still a reason why someone would feel the need to present problems other than the ones they have), and I can also see how being questioned could be threatening to some of us here, whose reasons for SI include validation. I don't think that anybody wanted to hurt anybody or stir up bad feelings. Can we leave it at that and remember to be supportive of Gracey, who asked for help in this thread?

Thanks.
Rap