Im sorry gracey by trying to protect you and myself, ive made you feel worse. Ive been too paranoid, but you cant question a self harmer, its something you do not do, in any way! And id prefer to scold a doubter than have someone feel the need to go off and do something to themselves as proof. But ive just made things worse. Ive got my wires crossed tho, ive taken it the wrong way. FORGET IT!

Gracey you can say whatever you like here, but you just have to beware of 'triggering' others. Graphic descriptions of self harming trigger some, this happens to be my weakpoint and i couldnt let it drop. Im beginning to wonder what i can and cant say myself, but that shouldnt stop you from benefiting from sharing your experiences with others that feel the same way as you and are going through the same ups and downs as you. We are a unique breed but we are not freaks.