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I dont necessarily think you were being abusive, I think the first poster is a woman
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Yes. I am a woman. And I know a lot about abuse and abusive men. If I was a man I would have written excatly the same thing and as you can see, I am supporting both of you but not Levi's abuse. I really object you minimising my reply in that I am 'a woman'. We should be well past those sterotypes.
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Most men do have pride when it comes to being the provider for the family
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Its the 21 century guys! Women are bread winners too. I earn 3 times more than my ex bf and that was fine. I am proud to be the bread winner. This has nothing to do with a cheating wife.
I think its time people stop hiding behind these cliches and start looking at themselves honestly. When you see yourself as equal you start seeing things you have not done before. I highly recommend it. Whether you are a man or a woman.
Best wishes!