I have to agree with what everyone else has said on this thread. There is no just "getting over it" though I hear many variations of this phrase, the most common in Army lingo being "suck it up and drive on" and really that is just NOT helpful, not in the least. If we could just get over it then it wouldn't be childhood trauma would it? I am sorry that you were treated this way and I hope you can find a way to work through it. We are here to support you