I hear you Ygrec23. There are times I feel abandoned too. However, your work load may be a consequence of the economy we're in. People are putting off doing things and I can see the legal profession suffering too.
As for why people may have stopped responding on the other websites, well, this is just a shot, but the population of different groups may shift, change. If you look at the member's list here on PC you'll notice a huge discrepancy between who you see writing on here and how many members there are. New people, who don't know your writings may be hesitant to reply, simply because they're newer to the sites.
Hey, the fact that you take a shower is cool. That gave me a laugh.
Let me know how you're doing.