Hi.

I have been where you are...and your instincts are right on the mark.

After my husband died I had a 3 year relationship with an untrustworthy man. I later discovered that he would sleep on the couch after having a fling with someone else.

I suspected it..but chose to boot it out of my mind until something clicked in me...and I thought "no more"..."I am taking the blinders off. Let the chips fall where they may". After discovering some really powerful evidence.. I confronted him...and told him to get out. It was hard. It was the hardest thing..I believe I have ever done. But I have never regretted it for a second in all these years since.

This heel has subsequently been married 3 times with children by all three women. God bless them!

You see...I knew that I deserved better!!

I hope I have not upset you..rather... I hope that I have conveyed that you are not alone in your experience...and remember you deserve better.

Have you talked to him about sleeping on the couch? PM me if you want to. This is too important to ignore.

~Dottie