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Old Sep 18, 2005, 01:41 PM
kelbelle65 kelbelle65 is offline
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{{{{{Lexicon}}}}}}, I know that feeling well. Remember this: we teach people how to treat us. Here's what I learned to help me in those situations: as long as I put forth lovingkindness, am friendly, polite and a concerned listener, I can leave any social situation knowing that I was my best self. As long as I remember to think before I speak, especially if something like gossip or judgement is about to come out of my mouth, and I say something positive or neutral instead, then I feel confident that there is no reason why people would not like me. Try it, it really works! And remember too, that you are worthy of people's love and friendship.

Hugs,
Kelly