I agree that you should talk to her and make it clear that you
both set some boundaries and you want to stick to those boundaries for the time being. Let her know that the two of you can talk about changing those boundaries at a later time when you both feel ready to take the next step. No matter what, always take care of
yourself! It is nice to be in a relationship and have someone to care about and to care about you in return, but it's not worth it if the relationship is unhealthy. I'm proud of you for taking a risk!! Best of luck to you!
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too."