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Originally Posted by perpetuallysad
HE DID WHAT? Oh you definitely have the right to confront him. That's awful. Geeze. I'm sorry, BNLsMOM.
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I was answering this at the same time as you, Lynn...Anyhow, I don't mind masturbation in the least bit and I honestly don't mind porn, but to do it in front of her without acknowledging it is weird and THAT would hurt me. That I was right there, yet he chose to exclude me from something like that, or at least that he didn't have the courtesy to go in another room if he didn't want to include me.
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Yes, I was trying to figure out how to say what bothers me about it.
I will add that we were in a couple's session today and one of our issues is a lack of intimacy. I wouldn't mind if he wanted to share with me what works for him, or include me, but to just be so open, but at the same time so secretive weirds me out. He is my husband for goodness sake, not my college roommate who has to hide under a blanket.