tomi, sadly i remember when SC wanted a forum for sexual diversity and ethnicity. she was pummelled by people who could not have cared one way or another. it was so negative and hurt me very much to be here. and i agree with you, i'm learning a lot more now than i did when i was a narrow-minded idiot. thank you so much for posting this.

do you remember my posting about criticizing another's choices? i used the example of my dog rolling in fresh cow---- and how much i hurt her feelings when i scolded her. that applies whether we're talking about our T, our feelings, our meds or anything else we BELIEVE in.

xoxox pat