When joining the group as a whole some alters may at first hide then blend with the others thats alright just let her know that you still love her and let Andy know again that by working together as a unit then you do not have to take so much down time or go see T. Now mind you if we had a T like him then we would be back into therapy. Just give your self time and remind your self that you are doing this to help stop hurting each other not the othe way around. In one work book that we used the auther in the intro made this statement to all her inside parts. We have two choices we can either work together and do the things we enjoy or We continue fighting go on Soc. Sec. And live a very dull life fighting each other. Now this woman was a career person with high standing but when push come to shove most of her part were willing to work with each other so that they could enjoy the style of life that they enjoyed living in. Good Luck on the inner pep talk.
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Originally Posted by WePow
Odd.... I felt Little One just a bit ago and she was telling me "Shhhhhh...." I was not supposed to know she was there. She said Andy told them all they had to hide from me!! WTH??? Have you guys ever had alters hide other alters from you?
I thought I was blended or whatever? Now I am confused.
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