Well, I'm hesitant to state my opinion because I don't want to offend you or anything.. But I can try my best explaining my opinion..

Being in the military most *likely* will not help with those things, although I have never been in contact with the military, I believe that the military will be more depressing than anything..

People can see some pretty depressing stuff out in the field.. and with a weapon at hand, I wouldn't trust myself. I really wouldn't. That is how I look at it.

But what it all boils down to is that it is what YOU think is right, and what YOU feel. I don't know your thought process, but if you think it's right and it might help you, then you have that choice to do it.