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For me, I have to look at why something/someone upsets me, and what can I do about it? And what I can do about it is realize that I can't change it, and really, in the big picture, does one comment change my life? All I can change is myself and my attitudes. It's been a much more peaceful existence for me here, looking at it that way.

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A good sized nugget of wisdom, Rayna! Good going!