Yes, I remember her starting a thread about ethnicity. She had also asked me point blank why I minded my extreme tan this year. I remember her posting about her feelings for her T. I'm really sorry that we couldn't support her with those issues. I feel partly to blame! Not because I judged her, but because I don't have enough experience with either issue. If I was descriminated against in school, well, it was nothing compared to the emotional abuse I was receiving at home.

Those times are the the ones when all we can do is love the person and ACCEPT them. If we can't accept, then leave it alone. Some things we can change and some we can't no matter how we would like to.

SC is sure a beautiful, sweet person. Wish she'd come back more often.