Sometimes we have to think of ourselbves FIRST when things come up. Our sobriety is the first thing that must be in our lives. It may hurt to loose people we care about and love, but at what risk are we willing to keep them. At the risk of loosing our own sobriety? No, I think not. That is why we come first. Yes tell her how you feel and be open with her about it. Explain that you do not want to be tempted in any way and that your recovery is the most important thing in your life. If it is not first in your life, you will loose your life to it and the addiction will have won. Tough choices comes before us I know. But we must be strong and stand tall in our fight against our addiction.

Allan