((Elysium)) - I also wanted to give you support and credit for revealing your problem. I agree you certainly need to do something effective to make yourself healthy. I don't have a weight problem - in fact when I was younger I had to make an effort to keep wait on lol. I didn't like being 20 yrs old, 5'6" and only a 100lbs.

I do know alot about healthy eating and exercising though. When my mother had several strokes and later died from it, I learned how to eat healthy - not to look better but to avoid the same crippling strokes she had.

You're a smart lady and I'm sure you and your doctor will make the right decision. It seems like you know the important psychological connection to weight. Even famous stars who had it done, struggle when they haven't linked the emotional/psychological and just treated the physical part. Best of luck Elysium.