Yes I totally agree with Ozzie. People always believe that they deserve to be treated a certain way, depending on how they were treated at various stages in their life. Such people will feel uncomfortable being treated with respect if they've never had it before. It doesn't make sense to them. They can feel that the nice person is trying to trick them or get something out of them. They assume they have an ulterior motive.

If she's with a 'Jack' type, suddenly her world makes perfect sense to her. It's the world she knows.

That's the only advice I have.