Thanks BohemianPrincess for your input...He's always been strange, quirky, cold, weird. Very phobic physically -- I finally figured out that he doesn't like it when I hand him my check. We get off to a slightly better start if I put it on the desk. If he has anything for me, like a statement, he sticks it on the desk, doesn't want to get near me. He also sits down the whole time we're together -- doesn't rise when I leave. Always thought it was weird, but never attributed it to a sexual fear of me or anything.
Otherwise, he demonstrates a strange lack of sympathy when I describe myself as a victim. But I've wondered if he's trying to teach me to:
-see things from another perspective
-reconsider others' motives (maybe there was no hostile intent)
-toughen up and not be so oversensitive
Just a lot of questions marks with this guy!
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Originally Posted by BohemianPrincess
I think he is just trying to maintain his proffesionalism and its coming across as being cold, has he always been that way or was there a sudden change? There could be something going on in his personal life and it may not have anything to do with you, but just may be carrying over into his work. You could ask if everything is ok with him because he seems a little distant and its making it hard for you to communicate.
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